Healthy Sleep Habits
April 27, 2011 – My first visit to sleep specialist, who gave me a list of ‘clean living’ things to do over the next 8 weeks. I’ve done almost all of these things at various points over the past 9 years, but this time I will do them all AT THE SAME TIME!
- Give up alcohol
- Give up chocolate
- Give up caffeine
- Give up ALL screen time after 10pm
- Exercise vigorously for 20 minutes prior to sleep
- Get out of bed if can’t sleep after 20 minutes
- No going back to bed in the morning
April 27 – I decided I need time (and a glass of wine) to take this lifestyle change on
April 28 – I created a schedule to make this happen (the doc told me to take up to a week to give up the caffeine so I don’t feel bad dragging this out a few days)
April 29 – I gave up caffeine (not too hard really, my coffee was 2/3 decaf already & Coke & Sprite are interchangeable to me, no headaches reported, despite much naysaying).
I woke up at least 6 times, probably more, during the night. I felt I never really did sleep all night long.
April 30 – I gave up chocolate. Yep, booze is more important to me than chocolate. (also not too bad as I ate the last of the ice cream on the 29th & just didn’t buy anything chocolate to replace it)
I fell asleep about 1a & slept until 7a.
Oh so it’s the CHOCOLATE’S fault! Damn Damn DAMN!
May 1 –I got off the computer at 7pm & turned the tv off at 10pm (thus missing the announcement at 10:30 about bin Laden being killed. First time I have the tv off at 10pm in a decade & look what happens). I also gave up alcohol (tricky, there are 4 bottles of wine and 8 of hard cider in my house & I have to keep reminding myself not to drink it) I started some meds for my not-quite-but-almost restless leg syndrome. Side effect of the meds? May cause drowsiness.
HA! I laugh at your puny side effects!
I went to bed at 11. At midnight I forced myself to get out of my nice warm bed & go sit in the living room & read. I was physically uncomfortable now & had not been uncomfortable in bed. I ached, I was cold, my hips hurt. I could not get comfortable reading. I did some yoga & then paced in circles around the kitchen island until I felt I’d been up long enough. I fell asleep at some point after 12:30 but then was awake from 1-3 off & on before finally dropping off around 3:30 & woke up at 6:30.
May 2 – I added the nightly exercise. I did the the Prison Workout. Ok, really I just *tried* the prison workout. 210 burpees are not happening anytime soon. 12 burpees was as many as I could manage before my arms gave up. I did some planks and some wall squats & tricep dips & then some really really slow burpees with no jumping at the end.Also? Another side effect of the meds is headaches (which may or may not clear up after a few days) I had one. It sat right between my eyes for about 4 hours in the middle of the day & possibly was allergies.
I went to bed at 11, made myself get back up at 12:30, read a bit & did some jumping jacks, went back to bed around 1, eventually fell asleep & stayed that way until 6ish.
May 3 – Had another headache, hit at the same time as the last one & lasted about as long, but this one was in the back of my head. Did mostly the same exercises as last time. I need to get that better planned.
Went to bed at 11, got out of bed at midnight, read, did some yoga, paced around the island & went back to be around 12:45. Not sure when I fell asleep but it was not long after 1:20, which was when I thought to myself “Dammit! I have to get back up again.”. I slept until 6:15 when my kids started screaming at one another about who gets the last of the Frosted Flakes.
May 4 – Brain function is down. I went into Safeway to buy taco shells & mexi cheese for dinner, found the aisle & grabbed the box. On my way to get cheese I had to walk past the meat department & then I began to wonder what I was going to make for dinner. No lie, I spent several minutes looking at the various meats, considering what was on sale & what I might make with it, or do I just want spaghetti, maybe DH could bring home a pizza. All while holding the box of taco shells in my hand. It was only through association of various ideas that I finally recalled that I was making tacos.
I had 2 chocolate chip cookies & I did not exercise last night because I did Pump at the gym & your body needs a rest. Went to bed around 11, not sure when I fell asleep but it was around 12 I think, woke up at 5, fell back to sleep woke up at 5:55, fell back to sleep & then the alarm went off at 6:40. I think I might have found the right dose for the muscle spasms as I had none last night.
So, progress is being made. 5 hours in a row is 2 hours more than I normally get.
I also lost 2 pounds! Yay me! 5 hours sleep and 2 pounds down!
losing weight is a side benefit of giving up alcohol and chocolate. Hope things improve! :)
ReplyDeleteThat all sounds encouraging, Stacey! Good for you - keep up the good work, I know it's not easy.
ReplyDeleteMaybe I should give up chocolate too...perhaps I will lose some weight. I need to cut the caffeine - I have been waking at about 330-4am, needing to pee... too much coffee!
Do you really find exercising late in the day beneficial? I find it keeps me awake!! It is funny how different things work for different people.
I wish you luck and send you some cyber-willpower to stick to your plans ~~~~~~~~ (that's the cyber-willpower arriving ok?) ~~~~~~
What a journey you're on Stacey. I hope it just keeps working better and better.
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Stacey, Glad you are seeing some improvement, hopefully you won't ever have to come to NC.
ReplyDelete5 hours of sleep and down two pounds, that sounds awesome!
ReplyDeleteWell done Stacey! Hopefully all this trial & error will result in you finally getting the sleep you deserve :)
ReplyDeleteGosh, I admire you taking the bull by the horns to improve your sleep! Good luck!
ReplyDeleteWell done on the weight loss and I hope the sleep pattern continues to improve!
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Wow! You are amazing. I can't imagine giving up chocolate and caffeine and alcohol! Eck! Keep up the good work! :)
ReplyDeleteWow, Stacey - I have sleep problems, too, but I can't imagine going through all that to fix them. Mine are restless brain syndrome...once it starts, I can't quiet it down to get back to sleep - so am often up in the wee hours because of it. ((HUG)) I know what the frustration feels like!
ReplyDeleteGlad to hear you are getting more sleep! Those few hours sure can help - that's almost double! :)
ReplyDeleteI have a similar problem. I can't get my brain to stop talking. That's what some of the no tv, do exercise, get out of bed stuff & the cognitive therapy later is supposed to help. The rest of it now is to give me a 'clean slate' as it were for the therapy to work on.
ReplyDeleteYeah, it's not been fun. I want a glass a wine & some chocolate really bad some nights,
ReplyDeleteSo far it's been useful. The exercise thing is a new thing they are suggesting for long term insomnia like mine. I guess they want me to go to bed really exhausted. :)
ReplyDeleteI'm pleased with it, though sometimes i wish is was 5lbs down & 2 hours of sleep. :)
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